
Reviews
A support group in a book. As hospice nurse Maureen Groden makes her rounds—each vignette displaying a different facet of patients and families coping with late-stage illness—we witness and learn. A gift to anyone contemplating how they might cope, which is more or less all of us!
All too many American families think that hospice is 'giving up.' These stories accurately show the compassion and breadth of concerns that hospice staff have, including caring about the person, not just as a patient, and for the family as the unit of care.
Incredibly poignant and compelling, these stories offer a refreshingly realistic portrayal of life's complexities—depicting families with trauma histories, fractured relationships, and the real challenges of assisted living—while thoughtfully representing the rich diversity of race, family composition, and sexuality.
A realistic, rich, and comforting resource for people coming together in the face of end-of-life experiences. Groden's personal devotion to helping people understand and engage in the complex circumstances of serious illness is evident. She shares accurate information side by side with emotional and thoughtful reflections. An essential collection of caring stories!
Maureen Groden has written a book using the best teaching strategy of all, which is the telling of stories. These stories of people facing death and those who love and care for them is beautifully written. It provides practical advice as well as capturing the sacred time of life ending. It will be a guide to those who will face death and those who will accompany them on this journey.
Book Details
Introduction. Why Talk About Death?
Chapter 1. I Can't Believe This Is Happening
Chapter 2. Does Palliative Care Mean That Mom Is Dying?
Chapter 3. Good Days and Bad Days
Chapter 4. When Is Active
Introduction. Why Talk About Death?
Chapter 1. I Can't Believe This Is Happening
Chapter 2. Does Palliative Care Mean That Mom Is Dying?
Chapter 3. Good Days and Bad Days
Chapter 4. When Is Active Treatment No Longer Worth It?
Chapter 5. How Long Does Mom Have to Live?
Chapter 6. From Discord to Harmony
Chapter 7. The Family Circle at the End of Life
Chapter 8. Dealing with the Crisis of Pain
Chapter 9. Morphine Doesn't Kill People, Diseases Do
Chapter 10. Managing Anxiety and Restlessness
Chapter 11. I Just Can't Do This Anymore
Chapter 12. Nothing Left Unsaid
Chapter 13. Keeping Things Normal
Chapter 14. The Agony of Waiting for Dad to Die
Chapter 15. Soothing the Soul
Chapter 16. Bringing Dad Home to Die
Chapter 17. Saying Goodbye
Conclusion. Final Words
Acknowledgments
Notes
Bibliography
Index